One of the common questions asked initially of divorce lawyers is, “what should I bring with me to my divorce consultation?”
Prior to actually hiring a divorce lawyer, it’s common to first have an initial consultation with the law firm to get an understanding of your case. Usually this entails a sit down meeting with a lawyer to discuss your situation. This is also an opportunity for you to ask questions and better familiarize yourself with the lawyer you may hire.
To have the most effective divorce consultation possible, it’s best to come prepared with a few items.
After you have scheduled your initial divorce consultation, here are five things that we recommend bringing with you:
1 – Bring a List of Questions You Have
As mentioned, this is the perfect time to ask the divorce lawyer about any questions you may want answers to. This may include things such as, “what are my options?” or “what is a realistic timeline for my case?”
The more questions you are able to get answered in this time, the better. It help put your mind at ease while also helping the divorce lawyer get a better idea of your situation and expectations.
There is no question too simple or complex. If you have them, feel free to ask. To help give you an idea of some commonly asked questions we receive about divorce, this frequently asked questions resource may help.
2 – Consider Bringing Pay Stubs
It’s common for divorce attorneys to ask how much money both you and your spouse make. When determining items such as child support payments, these will be important pieces of information that will be taken into consideration.
By bringing pay stubs with you, this will aid in making more accurate estimates on how much money may be awarded in some cases. If you can, bring pay stubs from the last three months. This will help alleviate any question regarding how much each spouse brings in each month.
3 – If You Have Tax Returns, Bring These
Sometimes it’s understandably a little tough to round up three months worth of pay stubs. If you are unable to, a tax return may actually be even more helpful, since it’s gives a better picture of yearly income and your financial situation.
To obtain a copy of your tax return you may do so online directly from the IRS website here.
4 – Bring Prenuptial Agreements and Other Documents Related to Your Marriage
If you have a prenuptial agreement, this something you will certainly want to bring as it will help in preparation of a divorce agreement. In addition to agreements relating to your marriage, if children are involved, you may also consider bringing their birth certificates. Documents such as these can assist in the event there are questions involving custody, or if your case ends up going to trial.
When having your divorce consultation, the goal is for you get your questions answered. Likewise, it is also the divorce lawyer’s goal to get a better understanding of your situation so they can best advise on next steps for your divorce. This will also help them to provide timelines and expectations with you.
5 – Any “Incriminating” Evidence
In the event you are seeking a “fault divorce,” you’ll want to bring any evidence which is considered incriminating. This may include photos, posts on social media, or any other evidence that provides proof of any abuse, cheating, etc. While Texas does allow for “no fault divorces,” this sort of evidence may create weight in your favor if you are seeking specific awarding in your divorce, such as being awarded custody of children.
Scheduling Your Divorce Consultation
We understand that facing divorce is difficult. More often than not, it brings with it negative feelings and emotions. But you don’t have to face it alone. If you are facing divorce, we encourage you to schedule a divorce consultation with our firm.
At the end of the day, you want a positive outcome in your case. You can rest assured that with our legal staff, you will be in good hands and have a compassionate and understanding team by your side to help you move on in life. So please, contact us today.
