A common question asked among people contemplating divorce is, “can I afford to get divorced?” But when asking this question, they aren’t really asking if they can financially afford a divorce. Rather, what they are actually asking if they will be able to start and live their new life after divorce.
We’ll preface this article by saying, yes, you can absolutely have a life after your divorce. A better one than before, in fact.
For many people getting divorced, they are so used to life being married to their spouse that they can’t imagine living life any other way outside of what they are used to. They are often so emotionally attached to their life and the way it has gone, that the idea of starting over seems completely foreign.
But the truth is, if a marriage has come to the point where there is no other option than divorce, trying to move forward is probably going to be one of the best things you can do for yourself and your overall quality of life.
Yes, things may be very different at first. But, over time, a life that seemed all too unattainable in the past can become a thing of reality.
Being able to afford divorce
Aside from the financial aspect of divorce, there are a few things to consider and think about as you prepare for divorce. Among these considerations include:
- Focusing on the future.
- Asking yourself what you want out of life and the kind of life you want to have post-divorce.
- Remaining positive throughout the process.
- Coming up with a financial plan.
- Taking care of your mind.
- Having a close friend or relative to talk with when you need to; and
- Allowing yourself to move on.
Now, of course some of these things are much easier said than done. But, they are all necessary components in order to have the best possible transition into your new life after divorce.
Working with an attorney, financial professional, and counselor are all professionals that can also help provide a better sense of direction and peace of mind.
Are you wondering if you can afford divorce?
At our firm, we understand that facing divorce comes with many questions and uncertainties. Many of which are mentioned here as they relate to the emotional aspect of divorce. However, if you have come to the point where divorce is the only option left, then we would like to help.
We have helped many people facing the uncertainties of divorce, while providing guidance all the way through their divorce, and onto the other side. We can help you too.
To speak with one of our divorce attorneys to see how we can help, please contact us. Getting started on the road to your new life is the first step.
