Over the course of most of 2020, the world has been completely turned upside down in ways that are unprecedented. For divorced and separated couples with children, this has meant an especially challenging road to navigate as it relates to child custody.
In a recent article from The Washington Post, described in detail are some of the challenges co-parenting families have undergone, and what those experiences have been like for parents facing custody issues during Covid-19.
From added tensions, to disagreements on visitation, the pandemic has led many divorced and separated couples to navigate custody in ways they have never had to before.
Challenges
Throughout the COVID-19 pandemic, what you find is that many co-parents simply do not agree on shared pandemic protocols. Consequently, leaving many couples frustrated and anxious for their children as a result.
A solution that has worked for some is abiding by the separation or custody agreements in place, but being open to making adjustments as things change.
Another significant issue that separated and divorced couples have been facing is when children experience more freedom with one parent than the other. While this has led some families into court, in the state of Texas, a statewide order is in place that says that parents are to follow their court ordered schedules during the coronavirus pandemic. By doing so, this does provide some clarity on what is enforceable and what is not when it comes to your children.
Solutions
The best thing during this time is open and constant communication with the other co-parent. Though this often easier said than done, it is one of the best ways to come to resolution regarding issues involving custody.
When resolution does not seem possible with a former spouse, one alternative to going to court is seeking the guidance of a mediator to help come to an agreement.
For other parents, a practice called “nesting” has helped. This is where children do not travel from house to house. Rather, they stay in one house and parents trade the house, so to speak, based on a schedule that they agree upon. However, being on good terms is generally the only possible way this solution works.
Above all, co-parents who have experienced a more positive outcome involving custody matters during the pandemic are the ones who communicate and put the best interests of their children first. When this is not possible, then you may consider seeking legal counsel to look at potential options such as modifications of existing orders.
Need help with custody during Covid-19?
We understand the challenges, frustration, and heartache that the pandemic has caused for all families alike. If you feel like you are unsure of your next step and are concerned about your current custody arrangement, we encourage you to contact us. We are here to help and can offer the guidance needed during these difficult times.